What is done at the first gynecologic visit depends on the reason for the visit and whether the girl is or isn't sexually active. In a routine visit with no complaints or problems under the age of 21, no pelvic exam is performed if a girl is not yet sexually active.
Your daughter needs her first GYN visit. You want to help her understand what to expect on her first visit. This article explains what to expect and what questions she should ask to ease her concerns and her fears.